Happy Mother's Day from Zooey Magazine

Here at Zooey Magazine, we wanted to take the time to thank our beautiful mothers and wish them all a very special Mother's Day (May 11). It's certainly the hardest occupation anyone can ever taken on. For all the times we've cried and you were there to help sooth our pains, thank you. For all the times we hurt ourselves playing sports or made fools of ourselves with all sorts of stunts and you kissed the boo-boo's away, thank you. For all the times we yelled back during our teenage-tantrum years and you did nothing but endure it, thank you. For all the times you taught us everything we need to know about life, we thank you. Mother's Day, Zooey Magazine

Jessica Castro: Anyone who knows my mother knows she's my biggest fan. There's no one at her work that doesn't know how I have been or what I have been up to. All throughout out my life she has always been there for me to help conquer my goal and fears, no matter the size. She is a bright light in my life. I admire her greatly for her everlasting positive energy, hard work and love she shows my father and I.

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Courtenay Coleman: When I was little, my mom and I would get in the car, turn up the radio, roll the windows down, and go "cruising". Even to this day, when ever a 90s pop song comes on, I think about those carefree days with her. They are some of my absolutely favorite memories. I love that she taught me how to love unconditionally, always be up for an adventure, work hard, and to drink my coffee black. She really is my best friend!

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Megan Elliott: As her first child, my mom and I have always had a special bond. We have always been there for each other and are much more like best friends than anything else. My mom is the type to let me explore on my own, but I know I can always come back home to her. Now that I'm an adult, she travels the world teaching English in other countries - something I truly admire.

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Asami Zenri: I obviously don't have any memories when this photo was taken, but I remember she's always loved feminine and girly outfits in pretty colors. Maybe that's the reason why I started having true love to fashion when I was very little...

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Megan Welker: My Mom is my biggest inspiration. Most people dread the day they "turn into their Mother" but to be honest, I can't wait and hope that I already am there. She is the most inspiring woman I know. She's who I got my stubborn independence from, she's taught me how to use a hand saw and also how to sew. Now that we live four hours part, I truly treasure the time spent together and hanging out at the ranch. I can't wait to be a mother one day and follow in her footsteps.

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Lucia Tran: This is actually a photo of my mother and my oldest brother, probably dating from 1987/1988 (Mom actually forgot to send me a photo). My family arrived in the United States in 1992 from Vietnam, and I was born months later in in California. I am the youngest of 3. My mother is the hardest working person and strongest woman I have ever been blessed to know. When I was younger, I remember my mother balancing at least 3 jobs while still coming home on time to make dinner for my brothers and I. There never was a day when she simply rests. She is always there when I need her, and always supporting me in all my endeavors - however insane they may sound. To this day, she is my biggest fan and what gets me teary eyed the most is when she calls me to remind me to stop working so much, and that she feels bad she's not here to help me. I simply cannot thank her enough for all that she's done and all that she will do. So here's to you mom, and moms all around the world. Thank you.

Birthday Road Trip: Part 6

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Marfa is a strange town, I'll start with that. We accidentally scheduled our day on a Tuesday (everything is closed on Tuesdays, FYI). Kind of a bummer. But, in the end, it gave us such a good excuse to slow down which is hard for me to do. I recommend scheduling downtime for yourself on your road trip (I know that sounds weird). We stayed at El Cosmico which, if you know anyone who claims to be a hipster, you have probably heard of this place and likely know how awesome it is. I am here to inform you that it is extremely awesome. We stayed in a safari tent, which left me feeling like I was in a Wes Anderson film. We had gotten to Marfa earlier than any of the other guests and practically had the place to ourself. Time went by miraculously slow here. We laid in crocheted hammocks on the edge of the campsite and read for hours, then went back to our tent to snack, play games, and read more. We lounged around and watched “The Life Aquatic” with Steve Zissou (when feeling like you're a part of a Wes Anderson film, what better of a way to celebrate?). Then we took some star trails. We fell asleep early, and woke to another wind storm and decided to leave at 4am. Hey, why not?

Before starting this road-trip, I had not-so-secretly been pretty insecure with myself (especially in photographs) which led me to never let anyone get any photos with me in them... A bit ironic since I'm a photographer? Any way, I just wasn't happy with the way I looked or felt. Even though it seems innocuous, I was always bringing myself down in some way or another. Somewhere along this trip, I thought "what the hell is it all for? All this self-bullying?" and realized I had been making myself feel bad for things other people love about me and things I'll never be able to change about myself. So, me being the goal-oriented person I am, decided to challenge myself: you must make yourself love the way you look in every photo you are in this trip. At the beginning it was hard, it was more of a "okay, whatever, I’ll live with it." But, surprisingly, after only a day I noticed myself actually pointing out the good parts without having to tell myself to. This morphed in to me actually liking the photos I was in, and eventually I started feeling much more confident. When we came back from the trip, I felt like a new person. Instead of dwelling on what I hated about myself, I was learning to love what I couldn’t change.

(Read Part 1 / 2 / 3 / 4 / 5)

Story // Kelsey Newkman Editing // Michele Davis Photography // Feather & Twine

California Living with Autumn Reeser

In honor of Mother's Day, we bring you one of our favorite editorials to have worked on - a mommy and me story featuring Autumn Reeser ("Last Resort," "The Girl Next Door") and her sons Finn and Dash! Motherhood is difficult... an occupation all in its own. On top of acting and running her own lifestyle blog, Autumn makes sure she's the best person she can be for her children; a job that doesn't ever end. She opens up about her childhood, her mother, and her ideal Mother's Day. Autumn Reeser, Zooey Magazine

What is one of your favorite memories of your mom from your childhood? Bike riding through the redwoods with my mom on one of our many camping trips up the California coast.

In what ways does your own mom most inspire you? She has an incredible wellspring of patience and kindness within her. Watching her with my son really taught me how to be a mother, how to nurture and how to give care. Mothering did not come entirely naturally for me and I am a far better parent through watching her example.

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When you first decide that you wanted to be a mommy yourself? I always knew I wanted to wait until my thirties to start a family, and I found out I was pregnant with Finn on my 30th birthday, which was the best present I could ever ask for.

What are some tips and tricks you have for balancing motherhood with a full career? Wherever you are, be all there. Don't waste energy feeling guilty when you're at work and don't waste energy feeling guilty when you're at home. You'll be much happier if you're fully present, wherever you are. You'll also be setting a great example for your kids of how to be a positive influence on the people around you.

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Can you tell us about some of the ways your kids most make you laugh? My oldest loves to sing and is starting to invent his own songs. Yesterday it was 'Macaroni, mac and cheese.'

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What is one of the most challenging things about being a mom? The endlessness of it. You are always mom. In a film/TV career you work very intensely for a few months and then you have time off to recharge, but as a mom you never get that chance to press 'reset.' That's why it's really important to learn to find that space for yourself in smaller ways -- a yoga class, a good cup of coffee, even just a deep breath with closed eyes. You have to invent ways to allow yourself to feel replenished or else you totally burn out.

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What do you wish you had known before your first baby was born? I have a completely different concept of time now. I wish I had known how quickly each (sometimes painful) stage would pass. It would have given me strength and patience to ride out the tough days with more grace, knowing things would very quickly change. I'm much more patient and happy the second time around as mom to a newborn.

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How do you feel most appreciated on Mother's Day? As well as other days throughout the year? A simple 'thank you' goes a long way! Acts of service also mean a lot to me - doing the dishes, making a latte, getting up with the kids so I can sleep an extra hour - all those things make me feel cared for and loved.

Outtakes will be featured on Zooey Magazine's upcoming "Little Zooey"... Stay tuned!

Interview // Michele Davis Editing // Lucia Tran Photographs // Roneil Chavez Hair and Makeup // Jeanne San Diego Styling // Lucia Tran

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